Erotic Blueprints™ Coaching · Boulder & Online
YOUR OWN EXPRESSION.
Know what moves you.
Created by Jaiya, the Erotic Blueprints™ describe five distinct styles of arousal. They offer language for what turns you on—and how you connect.
The charge before the touch.
Turned on by anticipation, space, tease, and longing. The charge can build before anyone touches you.
Recognize why rushing shuts you down—and learn to ask for the space that lets desire build.
Let your senses lead.
Turned on when all five senses are engaged. Slow touch, taste, scent, sound, and atmosphere invite your whole body into pleasure.
Understand the conditions that help you relax, receive, and actually enjoy what’s happening.
Desire, directly.
Turned on by nudity, direct genital touch, penetration, and orgasm. Clear, direct pleasure can feel deeply satisfying.
Express your desire clearly, with less second-guessing—and understand a partner who wants something different.
The edge has your attention.
Turned on by what feels taboo to you—through sensation, fantasy, or power dynamics. What makes it compelling is personal.
Put language to desires you may have judged or hidden, and explore them with consent and choice.
Your desire has range.
Turned on by all of it. A broad palate, a generous appetite, and a desire for variety across all five Blueprints.
Ask for the range you crave instead of continually adapting to what someone else wants.
OR IMMERSION
Room to find out
what you actually want.
We begin with what has your attention—even if you don’t yet have the words. I ask questions, listen closely, and give you room to ask yours.
Then we bring it into experience. Through guided awareness, sensation, and communication, you practice asking, receiving, setting a boundary, or changing your mind. You notice what brings you closer—and what asks you to slow down.
If you come with a partner, we explore how to express what you want and hear what they want—without assuming your bodies speak the same language.
I’m paying attention to your words, your pace, and the moment something opens—or you start to pull away. We check in, honor your boundaries, and let your choices shape what happens next.
We close by identifying what you want to carry into your relationships and everyday life.
You get to discover what’s true for you.
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A deeper level
of guidance.
I’m an Erotic Blueprints™ Lead Coach with advanced training in Jaiya’s methodology. My work draws on extensive study and embodied, hands-on training with established leaders in sexuality, consent, and somatic practice—including Connie Eberhart, Ian Ferguson, Darshana Avila, and Orpheus Black.
My training also includes study of the work of David Bedrick and Gabor Maté.
That depth informs how I meet you: with attention to your body, your boundaries, your desire, and what happens between us.
GOOGLE REVIEW EXCERPTS
“I can speak my deepest desires and share my rawest truths, without judgment.”
— Wild Orchid
“His deep expertise, strong skills, and genuine care come together to create a transformative space where people feel truly safe to explore, express themselves, and grow, free from judgment.”
— Benjamin Caillat
READ THE GOOGLE REVIEWS ↗“Grateful for the impact he’s had on my life and his ability to help me move forward!”
— Tracey Davis
There’s more of you here.
Let’s find out what that looks like.
Private sessions for individuals and couples ready to explore desire, deepen connection, and become more fully expressed.
You don’t need to arrive with everything figured out. Tell me what has your attention, and we’ll start there.
I’ll reply by email. We’ll explore whether working together is a fit and agree on the format, length, boundaries, and what’s included before you book.
Prefer email? aycekyptyn@gmail.com
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What are the Erotic Blueprints?
Created by Jaiya, the Erotic Blueprints™ are a framework of five arousal styles: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, and Shapeshifter. They offer language for the ways you experience pleasure and intimacy. You may recognize yourself in more than one type.
How do I discover my Erotic Blueprint?
Start by noticing which descriptions resonate with your experience. The Erotic Blueprint quiz can be a starting point. Coaching helps you explore how those patterns actually show up in your body and relationships.
What does an Erotic Blueprint coach do?
A coach helps you understand and communicate your desire, explore your arousal patterns, and put that awareness into practice. My work combines the Blueprint framework with conversation, somatic awareness, and experiential practices shaped around your goals and boundaries.
Can we work together if our desires are different?
Yes. Couples can explore how each partner experiences turn-on, what interrupts connection, and how to communicate needs without assuming you both want the same things. The aim is more understanding and more ways to meet each other.
Do I need a partner or know my type first?
No. You can come on your own or with a partner, and you don’t need to know your Blueprint before reaching out. Curiosity about your desire and willingness to explore are enough to begin a conversation.
Do you offer online sessions or in-person work?
I offer private virtual coaching and in-person immersions in Boulder, Colorado. Email me about what you want to explore, and we’ll discuss the format, availability, and investment before you book.
What are your qualifications?
I’m an Erotic Blueprints™ Lead Coach with advanced training in Jaiya’s methodology. I’ve studied and worked with Connie Eberhart, Ian Ferguson, and Orpheus Black. My broader embodiment work also draws on study and experience with Darshana Avila, featured on Netflix’s Sex, Love & Goop. I’m certified in Bondassage™ and a student of Sexological Bodywork. I’ve also studied Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent® and completed Like a Pro training. Additional studies include the work of David Bedrick and Gabor Maté.
How do I book?
Use the inquiry form with a few lines about what you’d like to explore and whether you’re coming on your own or with a partner. We’ll discuss options and whether working together is a fit.